(I think I need a general fandom icon or so *g* )
Such a page might be very useful in a lot of cases, I have to go looking if there are any. But I don't think the current case would be any help; I got the impression that they weren't interested in anything but their own opinion. I discussed the whole conversation with a friend, as I was wondering if I overreacted, but she felt just the same way. The internet is a strange place sometimes.